And part of being spiritual is that I don’t make myself or my energy available for any men who doesn’t put in any effort for me or the date. I’m not saying a date needs to be expensive or a fancy dinner, but somewhere with ambiance and that encourages a romantic connection more than a bland coffee shop is a fair boundary and expectation to have (and you’re welcome to differ, but I’m stating my personal preference and conclusion based on personal experiences). Stay blessed.