Exactly! So many men, the "mentalcels," as you call them, lack a sense of true accountability or mindfulness. I believe our culture in many ways causes men to feel entitled, but they fail to realize the work they need to do for any relationship, including their relationship with themselves, instead focusing on the idea of having a "no-stress" or "no-drama" relationship that is rooted in fantasy rather than reality or emotional maturity.

Women, we can help support these men, but we cannot change them; they need to be willing to help and change themselves. And too many men are willing or able to go past their ego and step outside of themselves for true healing, as comfort zones, even if harmful, foster complacency. This is the struggle all too many women face today!