H sorry I had to clap and throw off your 69-clap mark! Yes, polyamory requires a lot more transparency and communicating with our partners. I heard one polyamorous woman’s advice recently, regarding her own open relationship, and that was to “only move as fast as the slowest leg.” This was in the context of them being nesting partners with children and businesses together. I think this is a good motto if you have a primary/nesting relationship, and it goes back to your point of being aware that different people have different attachment styles. Communicating our needs and making sure we have partners who can work with our boundaries and needs is essential.