I am accountable for the decisions I am a part of. Sure; let’s talk about risk management options. Birth control does not protect against STI’s and hormonal birth control options can have devastating and long-term negative health impacts for women. A lot of men refuse to wear condoms. In this kind of dymanic, once again, the man holds more power yet is not intrinsically beholden to the same accountability (nor are STI’s as much of a risk for men without the use of condoms).