I’m sorry you are going through this. This kind of obnoxious, entitled behavior is so childish and narcissistic, that’s not the kind of energy you or your daughter need or deserve. I do not have my daughter’s father involved for precisely this kind of reason. Sometimes if a parent is presenting very toxic behaviors, I think it’s ok to want to shield the child(ren) from them as much as you can. You are a great mama bear. <3