Thank you for your bravery in being so honest and candid. I think your piece highlights a lot of great points. While you may be shunned by staunch feminists, you also are showing up as a feminist by choosing your path in a way that feels authentic to yourself and your personal and professional desires. You discussed as well the importance of selfishness, but I think it also comes back to being authentic to oneself, together with communicating your needs to your partner and working with your partner so that both of you can live your personal authentic truths and support each other in doing so. 🙏🏼