Thank you for your comment. It reminds me of a book my friend recommended to me, “Why Men Love Bitches.” Though I find the title a bit off-putting, I think the sentiment holds true. Women need to be assertive to make sure our needs and boundaries are met. As a I wrote in another article, women need to express their needs and claim the respect due to us. At the same time, this doesn’t excuse men from doing the least they can get away with. I also think that an approach that is lazy, inconsiderate, and operating a low-vibrational level that centers physical wants/needs also ultimately fails men as well. Both men and women have to put in effort and be radically self-aware and clear in intentions. Even for a fleeting relationship, it serves men to be more honest and intentional as well. The responsibility rests on both men and women.