Thank you for your perspective and your points. I will concede that those are risks for a man if there is not a prenup, or you live in a state/municipality where prenups are not honored. I am talking specifically about dating and not in marriage. And I think what you discussed above also further supports why so many men seek nsa dating, because they’re cynical/jaded from the outset. What I am arguing is that honesty and gender upfront go a long way. I don’t have anything against prenups either.