Yeah I similarly got banned from OkCupid after telling a guy who was persistently trying to get my attention that he could help me pay for a babysitter… and his sorry a** reported me because I then saw in my email that he said what could he do that I have a kid, he could hire a h00ker if he wanted, and then I came to see my account had been banned. Like men are entitled, narcissistic children, and these apps pander to that, encouraging the superficial hook up culture/idea of access to women without having to actually do anything for us. I just wrote about my view on the matter - https://medium.com/illumination/are-women-more-censored-and-surveilled-in-online-dating-4bec2ed0fc9e