You make a lot of great points. It is better to be realistic about our strengths and weaknesses. People are more attracted to beauty; there is both exterior and inner beauty, and while inner beauty attracts and obviously holds importance (despite how people will try to dismiss someone's flaws or weaknesses), it is inner beauty, humility, and grace that help sustain an attraction. Being aware of how society will always be to some extent superficial while also probing it to find more depth is important. Thanks for sharing.